Im really scared please help me! Is my lobe infected?

5 years ago i had my ears pierced and they got infected not i got them pierced again. It has been 6 weeks. I changed my earrings, the first time i had no problem. At night I had to change back into my studs so I took out my earring, But i couldnt find the back of the hole!! So I wiggled my earring back and forth for at least 10 minutes and my lobe started getting irritated so I had to put it in backwards (which worked). While I was trying to get my earring in it was oozing a clear liquid as well as some blood (i think)( i was too panicked to notice) and now im reallly scared!!! Will it get infected again? Now my ear lobe feels hot. Im scared please help me!!!